I feel shattered & completely thumb. I managed to find enough strength to reach out to a neighbour for help. This all saddens me so much. Finally, on the last stray, the wife decided to date and one day, while going to the house, he found out she was seeing someone and that was it for him. Speaks poorly of them . I knew I was probably in for an emotional hit. And before I knew it he asked to move In with me. I for some reason believed him took him back. I had to get a protection order and hes been charged with telephone harassment. You are still there, you are still smart, strong, capable. trust me they eventually crack because they want control and best way he has is Ur child. Please see a therapist to help you deal with this person in a way that will lessen future damage . There is no specific time frame for this behavior; your best option is to close the door on them and never look back. He even started spreading these same lies to our neighbors. good luckfrom what I read Ur an amazing mum get Ur son back xxx, HI THERE I WAS PRECISELY THROUGH THE SAME BUT HE FOUND A 48YR OLD SHE DOESNT WANT TO LEAVE ME ALONE SENDING ME MESSAGES ALL THE TIME THREATENING ME AND TELLING ME HOW BAD I AM SO BAD THAT I CANT TRUST PEOPLE DONT HAVE THE COURAGE FOR A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF HIS LIES AND DECEITFULL WAYS I AM TORN APART AND HOW DO ONE HEAL YOUR SOUL EVEN I FEEL GOD LEFT ME. A few years ago the court reduced his visitation to only three times a year and allowed me to move across the country from him. after two days, I was left alone crying and begging. Shes going to be so hot! After easter, my son hurts himself and I rushed him to hospital. This is helpful, thank you. I threw him out! Another week passed; he came back and his girlfriend followed, knocked on my door and I proceeded to find out that he had been involved with this woman for 17 years and that he had been living with her since before I put him out. I fell back into the same trap with all the charm that I thought was sincere after 5 years of separation. But I Am Sure That Whichever Is Not Important Compared To How Badly One Can Be Adversely Impacted From Too Much Exposure. So the cycle gos in again he starts hacking. I was really convince, I quickly contacted him I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He has filled her head with so much insanity to the point of complete confusion. I literally just yesterday left a 15 year narcist relationship. If you were the one that initiated the breakup, your narcissistic partner is probably brimming with rage. They regret losing a partner in the way you might regret losing a car it was something that was useful to you and youll need to find another one to get by. They both lied to me. ..all over again. Said he would only meet in person. Why do all of their eyes have a weird film over them? I dont care if I dont have a car; hed been holding the fact that I had no job or working car over my head this entire relationship. Hes currently using the Gas-lighting technique, trying to ruin my reputation. Considering this woman told me she went on the internet to find out where I lived and she got my phone number from his telephone then tracked him to my house and had the gall to knock on my door? It can be difficult to heal after such a betrayal, but it is possible. Before I was pregnant, he once rang my doorbell at 11pm, my bestie/roomy (a guy) and I were watching tv and wondering who the hell is ringing the doorbell this late. This article is so spot on. What intrigued me or got my attention about your post is the fact that you mentioned Pornography! Lack of emotional empathy: This means that they do not feel your pain. com] I still cant really say what prophet dumela did actually but i can boldly say that the prophet gave my relationship that perfect fixing that my relationship was lacking happiness/love and through this my lover is seeking for me to marry him without wasting no more time. I wanted to warn her. He refused to sign the divorce papers until the restraining order was lifted. Thanks for this realization. He came with rage and the intent to put fear in me, like always before.Those days of showing any kind of kindness, had long been gonelong before I left. to truly understand Narcs check out Sam VAknin on youtube. He has an obsession with porn but lies when confronted. Psychologists often refer to emotions like anger as externalized negative emotions. Shutterstock. they are fossils now. She was the first and only girl i had sex with i was not a popular guy in high school she was all i had and loved i was not even in my dreams, let her go without a fight in what ever form. It is such a blessing to read your posts. Our son tried for a few months to be supportive during her pregnancy but the drama, constant threats and degrading behavior was too stressful to attempt any relationship with her. In the past I would not have gotten out of bed for days. I couldnt imagine how easy it was for him to simply throw himself into work and go on with his life. Do Not Put Off Leaving. It came down to them attempting to apologize and want to help me in any way possible but I didnt want anything from any of them, especially the family members he was lying on me to. He lost a beautiful loving woman. Ask for forgiveness for anything you feel youve sinned on, ask for strength, give your pain over to Christ, and also praise him for giving you the love of your life, your son. Take it as far as limiting him only being able to speak with you via email. He said some hurtful things and when I said he was been cruel, he replied as I am a very honest person, it is just the truth. I wrote letters, cards. You can do this too! Theyve moved on to their next target and have no further use for you. Save. He now uses our children as tools to abuse me. Jack C brings up 2 great points I noticed with my ex. They cannot stand you giving your attention to anyone (or anything) else, even your children. The best way in which to ensure that the breakup goes smoothly is simply to cut off all contact. Now, Ive reversed the dumping! I have been responding to him, but I now understand why its only hurting me by giving in to his pathetic attempts of validation. I can literally say my life is perfect because all i need in my life was my family and i had it back with a stronger love bond. Me always being I love with him I agree So that night Im driving him home he tells me hes going on a trip. I spent a lot of sleepless nights where I stayed up for days at a time, my hair is falling out, Im on several medications because of my stress and all week Ive been waking up with anxiety attacks but when my daughter told me that he is telling him family, who I really loved, especially his mother that I sent those letters and is attempting to make me look like Im crazy and unglued, it snapped me back to my self and Im not crying no more. How do people become such monsters in the first place .. Also my guy only wanted physical intimacy and avoided emotional intimacy like a plague. All of it. When we returned from the trip I started to maintain my distance and met a psychologist who explained to me that I was with a person with classic symptoms of NPD. Greetings to every body that is reading this testimony. It hurt me and I found comfort in one of my best friend. He encourged me to quit my job and travel with him and I did (believe it or not). I was a widow and he strolled into my life manipulating me for nearly a year. Hes trying to make me look irrational and insane in front of everyone. prior to relinquishing yourself to another after going through this Its comparable to being imprisoned for many years and then being set free. Are you misremembering that fight? in my time of recovery from my N, I have discovered that this behavior is sometimes handed down from the mother who may also have those same N behavior patterns. You can do this! I mark on my calendar and high five a few co-workers every so often. I was also without a job at this stage. since my divorce I have not had a relationship with anyone as I realized I was severely damaged mentally ,physically and spiritually. They also may threaten to take your kids, house or to ruin your finances. He destroyed me and my life he disliked my friends and family it was all about him. I was already over it. Well needless to say I take his ass back he says Im throwing him away blah blah. You are smart to see people in your lives hanging on to these relationships, and not fall for it. He loved that girl so much, she theater him like shit. They didnt voluntarily give up their humanity, it was taken from them from people just like the monsters they became. I was with one for 4 years married to him for 2 years. Ive been away from this man for 14 years and yet he still has a pull on me as long as my kids are under his hypnotic spells of brainwashing and charming. When I was single from a divorce. I am 14 days out and I am praying that I dont fall back into the delusion of what really was. Continue. As unfortunately I paid a hell of a price for it. He kept on putting the blame on me. She told me that she will never leave her and I can basically get lost. Over the years I have always felt that I was living with a schizophrenic. Either they won't let you go without a fight, or they will discard you without looking back. The spirit!!! Its a very viscous type of demon and its best to run! Dealing with one of them now Painful awful experience. Breaking Up With A Narcissist. And I did! I didnt even go to the door but then 20 minutes later after he left, he calls to ask me if I needed anything from the store as if hes just going to pick up something on the way home. LisaKae, you are not alone. And they still waby you to live with them? A study published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin found that narcissists experience more self-deprecating thoughts, negative affect, and loneliness after a breakup than people with low levels of narcissism. It took me being hospitalized due to medical problems to keep me away from my N long enough to get clean, rest and realize, that I had to make a change. get yourself therapy join groups or talk about the abuse to trusted people or supports libe to let steam out. Youve ripped open a hole in their ego and destroyed their self-esteem the only way to remedy this is to destroy you. Which was the last straw for me I never recovered from it I lacked trust for him and I would constanly go round in circles. And that he cant come back to me because he likes what this new guys love has to offer. Its so awesome to breathe again. Dont take it out on the OW because risks are high that she is just one in a million and what do you know she may have been there years before you and he in turn never told the OW that he has a girlfriend or a wife. I just got over my narcissist. I have been in a same gender relationship with my partner displaying symptoms of NPD. I myself am praying he is over me and feel sorry for his next supply but.Im getting stronger everyday! They cant take criticism or to be told no. When the ob announced that my baby was a boy my babys dad said, A boy! In a way I feel very guilty about not putting my heart into trying it out with her after so many years of marriage. They usually wont budge. Well come to find out they are cameras Both the charger and the clock So we get I. And even when they're not the person being rejected, they tend to experience more anger when they have conflicts with romantic partners. Thank you Dr.chamberc for what you did. I am also grateful for her sickness because it helped me to react accordingly with my ex N and was able to get out with my dignity, and teach him not to mess with me. my advice is get your head straight FOCUS on your child NOT HIM my ex did the same to me with head games stay smart work with local authorities if involved document your childs behaviour any marks injury tiredness apprance when coming bk from dad. My question is did you and your ex have children? But this time Im gonna stay strong! I was able to get enough money out of him this third time to purchase a small home, I went to school and became a nurse. I know it sounds silly but I was in love with him so I could not leave. We dated about 4 months. On Wednesday . I lost many friends. I feel like Im getting my old self back. Blocked alot of contact, but still got e-mails. Anyone who's lived through it will tell you that living with a narcissist is a nightmare. that was enough to see something was not quite right. I wanted him and my marriage to work soooooo much but with the help of GOD and after many years of heartfelt pain. However, until I actually got her out of my life and began trying to address it, I had absolutely no idea the damage was as severe and extensive as it is. Want to know more? ALWAYS. Reading Suggestion: 11 Typical Examples of Narcissist text Messages. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 2days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise,this is so amazing. Im at a very low point but Im not going to let him take me down. This is spiritual warfare. Shes going to have a nice ass and lips. This was quite disturbing to me and I confronted him. They are very self-centered. I needed him back desperately because i loved him so much. My N were together 8 years. I start to find out hes not 27 but 34. After years I found out I was one of 20-50 girls that the N is spinning around. Its a given that narcissists like to come back to their old relationships, so you want to know how long you need to wait to feel in the clear. And my family hates hates him. he even tried to have me put in a mental hospital, by the judge! Am questioning if exhusband was on the PD end of that spectrum or just your average run of the mill alcoholic. I cant believe I let him in so deep. The devil will trick us and trick us to get us to become little evil minions, but dont do it. Can totally relate to your reasoning. Today, he called my daughter to tell her I sent a letter to all his friends, family and employers accusing him of infecting me with STD. If my children never know their N Father, then more power to me in raising them. I said where have you been. Im trying to decide if this guy I was seeing is a narcissist or just very selfish? My ex is also an addict to everything! He still tries to get back at me, indirectly. He left one confused email. Ive stuck rigidly to NC. When I would threaten to leave him, he would try for awhile. We are not making this up. Ive read these stories what do you do if its a married narc that want leave you alone but is still married. They always felt they were better or superior to everyone else I am feeling a little stronger as the days go by & can see them for what they really are just so hard when you were in-love with them. A couple months ago, I started sleeping in the spare room when he decided to keep staying out and ignoring me with the silent treatment over the course of a couple weeks. Sometimes the silent treatment never ends. Am just gonna go straight to the point because i was not just going let her go like that. mine broke up with me, but asked me to redesign her tramp stamp tattoo, and if she could still come by for sex since she was so aggressive she didnt attract any males at the moment. Oh I. And he was single. I know he can be violent. Did your ex try to contact you after the break-up? I dont think Im a terrible person, I did not ask for a disorder that does not feel emotions. Hes a narcissist himself so hes an expert, but limit your consumption of his stuff to the very basics. add the text only communication into the parenting agreement. Physical and emotionally abused, and I couldnt leave because I lived on an isolated island and had no money. I also have 2 sisters, a brother and a niece who are full blown Ns. Ill be praying that God fights this battle for us by providing a miracle or helps us to disappear from his life for good. If you have to meet with him in person, take a family member or friend who you trust with you and even record conversations, if need be. I had no idea he was mad! Why would you say this disgusting thing about your daughter?? I just couldnt understand why he was rejecting his wife that loved him with all her heart and soul I was literally close to being in a straight jacket over this manif it had not been for the Lord. To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. So I just deal with the light. I think we need to verbalized in order to heal. My discovery about her affair was like her ticket or rather her way of telling me she no longer was in love with me after 14 years of marriage. All Metodo Acamu asked from me was just materials and nothing else and it was for not reason compulsory for me to give him the money for the materials because, i had options he gave me to get the process done. I spent alot of time alone, when he came home he would eat, shower and fall asleep then a few hours later he would be on the road again and again I would be alone. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. They will drain you If you stay! I said dont you see how totally disrespectful that is, how could you? It still hurts so much how little I mattered. The other, had come over tripping out. I should have RAN. And it is hard, but so necessary as I saw him gettun g worse and worse. The only reason I do believe it is because I have memories of being that guy. It sounds like you sent a very clear message. When he was with me and vowed to be my Fiance he was on the internet seeking other woman..I got a restraining order on him for only 2 years. Wife number 3 who like exactly like his daughter. Long hanging fruit gets picked first, perhaps you need to raise your bar a little bit. .. sounds crazy even now to have to say that.. but only those of you who have lived or currently living it would understand. You know youre over REALLY OVER a narcissist when you stop trying to put yourself in HIS SHOES (human trait hes an alien), when you stop trying to guess what theyre thinking, why they do what they do, why they think they way they think, etc you will never understand because you are HUMAN. 1. My relationship with Ju developed from there. the last thing you want is to be listening to another Narc for a prolonged period of time. Reading Suggestion: How To Make a Narcissist Miss You? He went silent immediately. After all this time, after how I had practically begged him to call me. What it generally means is to let go , being in no contact is going to boost your ego and in the mean time you wouldve lost a considerable amount of life and career.. if you strongly feel that someone dont deserve your happiness or they demand you to sacrifice and what you feel is mutual let go .. let go .. you are going to get what you deserve be it a narcissist psychopath or whoever you will see them come to you the way you want .. but be open that you dont expect anything out of them.. let time take the call, surrender your sorrows to something you believe could be your god or your sentiment take the course of life you are going to get better and better and better .. in fact we are all narcissist psychpathic and bipolar people and we dont know it yet because love itself is a bipolar thing as it expects mutual consent and dependency .. we are talking about two brains at once in a single relationship Dont brand people , let them be people who they wish to be, rather blaming them make yourself beautiful and live the complete humanity. I was with one of these horrible ppl for 2 years. The narcissist can go for weeks without speaking to you, with the implication being that you need them more than they need you. counseling will not work.. because he will make excuses but then he will find another way to con you and the people around you. A narcissist never ever changes. So I did no contact for 30 days.nothing. This time, he stayed gone a week; he came back to get clothes and left after writing checks for the bills. I was shocked because I havent seen or heard from him for more than 3 months. My plan now is to leave and cut all communication. he prevent me from seeing my daughter 4 3 weeks she was 15 months at the time he then filed to courts 4 full custody. Now that you've gotten away from them, you need to shift that focus back to yourself, your own needs, and your own wants. Im really upset as what we had was really special and it breaks my heart to know it will end. Its evident a massive amount of serious harm has been done because of being subjected to years of her battering, compulsive lying, psychotic behaviour and malicious conduct. He studied at the University of Amsterdam and has a bachelor's in Clinical Psychology. Along with his physical abuse. He sent reams of poetry and promises, 35 fricken pages in PDF trying to lure me again. And for Christmas I get him gifts that cost a lot he asks for. It hooks me again well I lose mr friend over this who took me in with my broken nose. I say yes. Last of all learn to laugh again. The next day, he shows up and starts cutting my grasswhy? Then I get a frantic call. Especially if you've begun to see through the facade and are longer blind to the obvious. Its getting scary, and that is an understatement by far. I have never experienced this in my life and also never expected that my first marriage would be like this, I did everything I knew a wife was to do, I even sought advise from counselors on how to fix me if that was the case and in the end I was not the problem. Leaving is hard but it can be done. Hi Karen, You have just described me. However one the relationships ended he would revert back to harassing me and doing anything to sabotage any new relationships. I couldnt function, or make sense of life or what had happened between us. If kids are involved, you may need to discuss the logistics of visitation or travel, but it's okay to completely disregard any other communication. So when I returned he once again stated lashing out, but this this armed with the advise I had, I didnt go back and forth with him. For a lack of time and space here. As with all questions related to a narcissistic ex, the answer is an unsatisfying it depends. Hes totally ignored them and doesnt ever phone or see them. And the grooming he is always. It is a train wreck, I know I feel awful for loving him, but it was hard not to when theyre in the initial stages. She would fight with me and not talk to me for days. In the beginning he was happy about our pregnancy. Apart from the fact I can no longer drive, what I find to be very depressing is it strongly appears a fair amount of the psychological damage is permanent. I have a newborn baby girl with a married man who is narcissist. Spot on. 3 years ago. I had no idea that I was with a narcissist until I left him! I will try to give you advice on a few fronts but you have to be in the mindset that only you can pull yourself out of this mess, okay? Bites me and then leaves. Ju gets very upset with me when I bring my ex in the pic and that day, I called him to visit my son at the hospital. He is a bit put off by women. I have had to take her to counseling. Its a whole mind f@ck of reality. We found that people who scored higher on narcissistic admiration the charming, admiration-seeking side of narcissism were more likely to have initiated the breakup and cite their lack of interest in the relationship as a cause for the breakup. She got herself a boyfriend who rediscovered great sex with her. Only 48 hours after I contacted DOCTOR SANU my husband came back to me and begged me for another chance and that he regrets ever leaving me and our son or his ex wife. To a bar. My ex husband comes to the airport and doesnt take his eyes of my son. this is one of the worst experiences youll go through in life, but if you survive and overcome it, you will be amazed at how incredibly strong and wise you will become. This was the one thing I discovered about him earlier this year. Even if he is in the relationship for power or control, he still feels immense pain and sadness. No more guys like this. Separation can bring out the worst in even the most amicable of couples, but narcissists use the time to continue their crusade of fear and manipulation. The youngest child is now 18. It gave us plenty more time to talk. No matter who left who, be thankful you are alive. I did all he asked me to do in the instructions and everything happened just how i wanted. He wa a flirting with every one. A hand to write and technology to block contacts after what youve said or wrote but talk to yourself , take months to be alone , cry and come upto a decision. I am so angry this man stole my youth. He too was in middle of divorce. And if so has he ever tried to use them to gain access back into your life once you left for good? He did a really good job of concealing his true-self in the beginning of our relationship and during our first year and a half of marriage. .. I returned home but didnt tell her that I went away. Or say which is another lie. You'll be left wondering what went wrong. It was almost like he was enjoying it. The. I caved. Narcissists have a tendency to revisit their old relationships, but its not a given. He promptly messages me on my phone: I in no way want to open the door, youre a crap a**, crappy, bad personetc. Its like, why not just leave it alone! Im BLOCKED on his phone now! Hes basically saying this guy will support him. I know what I am reading here is true, and I need a game plan. I do not respond. childs sake. I was able to not respond to my ex because of what you said otherwise, I might have fallen into his supply trap so thank you!!! Another 15 minutes later, he comes back. Narcissists are irresistibly charming and charismatic at the start of the relationship. People with high levels of narcissistic admiration experienced less anxiety and sadness after a breakup and maintained positive perceptions of their exes. Stopped that crap pretty quickly! I know a lot of times that word is thrown around too much to describe men that really arent narcissistic. Until one day my husband began to behave in a way he could not understand, I was very confused by the way he treated me and the children. Nothing. Perhaps they . The story they spew during the breakup will probably be far from the truth as they attempt to save face. he would use other women to make me feel jealous. 8 months later I am living a much better, more peaceful life and he slyly has found a way to get in touch with me. Dont need this crap but looks like Ill have to deal with it anyway. ow and of course she kept saying she loved me. Ive been reading up on articles such as, making sense out of a very strange relationship. All during the relationship, he has accused me of cheating and lying when I have done no such thing. My ex & I met while working in the ministry for crying out loud! truth is they prob dont even remember why or what led them to be who they are now truly cruel people. This only added fuel to the fire . old. Soon after he started to criticize me, but I know I am smart and pretty and did not need him to validate, it did not work. I used to be a lively person but I feel that part of me was gradually vanishing. Hes gone! We should get married. With normal people, if I ever said something it gets worked out. I have a strong hate for him, I am so angry this man has put me in a terrible position I know he means me no well. Maybe that way we prove to the people who hurt us , we are worth living in this world than them .. being in no contact is another pain to endure when you have mouth to talk. Anyway, so he devalued and discarded me at 8 months pregnant. If you dont give the narcissist what they want after the breakup (i.e. Just look in their eyes when they are in conquer mode and you will see that evil spirit! Ive read a lot on narcissism since I got involved with this man & I can say from personal experience, this seems to be exactly how they are. The desperate attempts are him just trying to fill the void inside him again. Only add 1 more N to that list as far as dating one, and add another 1 for that would be my own mother, who has been the easiest for me to go NC with. His narc injury was far too great, and he knows I know exactly who he is. Its as though you took the words right out of my mouth. He just wanted to know what happened and she just ignored him. Id like to hear if your ex contacted you. Its exhausting. When a narcissist is in a relationship with someone they become part of the narcissist. 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